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People who meet all crawling creatures with love and compassion…they are the best of us 🤍

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Mar 8Liked by Dia Becker

I saw the title in my email and really prayed you did not have a picture of one in here. Deathly afraid of them - even the emoji makes my skin crawl. Desperately hoping my son is as fearless and loving as Andrew.

This is parenting.

This is parenting.

This is parenting.

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My partner does the same thing! I’ll see a huge spider in the corner of the ceiling and he’ll be like “hey he just lives there don’t bother him” and frankly he’s right! That spider is just a lost little guy!!

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Mar 8Liked by Dia Becker

Josie B just dropped a cockroach makeover ASMR on tiktok & YouTube, and I can’t help but wonder if you noticed whether or not the lips of the dude on your counter were lined to perfection?

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Mornings are a beautiful space. I love the process and savoring them.

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This took a totally different turn than I was expecting and it is brilliant and thoughtful. Yes!!

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It’s the way I can hear the scream from the kitchen 😭 solidarity with Andrew. We will always be the bug getters.

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Mar 8Liked by Dia Becker

“I love the human brain before dawn—particularly the male brain—for the layer of fog that shrouds the bad parts. Love is its only available resource.” This right here ❤️‍🔥 The ones that can access love and goodness first thing in the morning are so damn special.

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Only you can make me laugh and cry at the same time AND ponder the vastness of the human condition. love you and the lil roach dia <3

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I'm convinced there was a massive convention somewhere last week. Invertebrate-Con, or some such (I dunno. It's early, and I haven't slept enough this week.) And now all these bugs have dispersed into the world full armed with fairy dust and motivational speeches. Thanks to Marc Typo for bringing me here. Loved, loved, loved this.

https://elizabethbeggins.substack.com/p/ants-for-gods-sake

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Only someone who has seen the dark side of being human can genuinely appreciate the small moments like this. This was such a beautiful sentiment, especially a week before your wedding.

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I am terrified of roaches, my skin crawled a little bit thinking about that roach on your counter. But this was beautiful, and I love yall love.

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Single girl in NYC checking in here who is so happily single but also this is the #1 reason I want a partner

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What’s your address? I will send you a lamp with a soft yellow shade for your kitchen counter. And ooooh the things I see from the corner of my eye. The vermin, the spirits…all bring that same exhilarating shiver.

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Mar 9Liked by Dia Becker

Gorgeous writing, thank you! X

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Your dead sibling gives you kindly advice from the afterlife!? Mine just bullied me and then died during my 17th birthday party.

I could be mad, but instead I just choose to keep my male brain eternally exhausted so that love is its only available resource. 🤓

This is ptrauma, partnering, and parenting.

This is ptrauma, partnering, and parenting.

This is ptrauma, partnering, and parenting.

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