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Caroline Beuley's avatar

Using ChatGPT to write a break up text is a level of awful I had previously not contemplated. Your friend dodged a bullet! I really enjoyed this, and love your description of "platonic erotica," of recognizing the beauty in the every day.

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Dia Lupo's avatar

she reallllly dodged it you’re so right haha. Thank you so much for reading 😍

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Katya Corrales's avatar

7 weeks post-partum and reading these while breastfeeding at an unholy hour. My thing has been brown lipstick and neighborhood walks with a baby Carrier. My favorite jeans don't fit so I just hid them in another room and bought shorts in my new size so I can get the feeling of closing a button again. Motherhood is beautiful and wild and hard and beautiful and hard. Thanks for making me laugh!

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Dia Lupo's avatar

And thank YOU for sharing this glorious insight. Motherhood really is alll that ❤️❤️❤️ solidarity

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Charlotte Stephens's avatar

I have a very vivid memory of trying to put on my pre pregnancy jeans after my first was born, and being horrified that they weren't big enough to have fit one leg. Good work on hiding the jeans instead of doing this, still mentally scarred.

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Charlotte Stephens's avatar

To fit even one leg*

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caronahill's avatar

lowkey think you would slay blond with some grown out roots

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Dia Lupo's avatar

I am all for this… 👀

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Charlotte Dune's avatar

“Lock the fuck in” duddddddeee that guy is a keeper!

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Dia Lupo's avatar

Right!!!? I adore

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Erin Shetron's avatar

I am blush-obsessed, so allow me to throw a consideration into the mix: milk cream blush. it’s also a lip color but I do not recommend it for that. as blush it’s pigmented with a little sheen to it, melty and blendable, and you can cry without it streaking 💅🏻

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Dia Lupo's avatar

You’re a real one for this 😍

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asa's avatar

the deviled egg on the porch omg

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Dia Lupo's avatar

you truly can’t make this shit up

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Alexandra's avatar

TEAM KINDLE! TEAM HUGE FONT TO MAKE READING EASIER! Mine is g r e e n <3

Pop girlies are serving and i'm very much ready 2 eat

HERE HERE re: blush

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Dia Lupo's avatar

Pleaseeeeee do a full round up of your fav blushes like I would be so grateful 😇😇😇

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Kelly Legare's avatar

Bring on the anarchy

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Dia Lupo's avatar

So central PA coded… so shamokin…

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Kelly Legare's avatar

Apparently the Dunkin in Shamokin closed and that news made me sad. The post quoted a guy who didn’t know where he would meet his PO or public defender and that really stuck with me.

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Aebon's avatar

bawitdabacore 😂Unsolicited blush rec: Melt Blushlights.

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Dia Lupo's avatar

I’ll take all the unsolicited blush recs I can get 🫶

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Charlotte Stephens's avatar

I think the Kindle revelation is a mum thing, I had a full blown love affair with mine when my babies were small. It just fits so neatly into the change bag! And you can walk down the street reading it like you would your phone and noone bats an eyelid!

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Dia Lupo's avatar

Yep and it works sooo well with nursing when I only have one free hand 🙌🙌

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Charlotte Dune's avatar

Also my favorite blush is NARS Orgasm I swear it goes with everything. And when I’m feeling more reckless and party girl— the Fenty MATCH STIX COLOR ADAPTIVE CHEEK + LIP STICK in strawberry 🍓 pop and also put it on my lips and a dab just under the eye brow.

Do lipstick and bikinis next.

I am in search of the perfect high waisted bikini with high waist bottom above navel that isn’t too cheeky but with very skimpy string triangle top.

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Dia Lupo's avatar

NARS Orgasm is just so classic, like that will always slap. And I love everything Fenty I’ve ever tried 🙏 what about lip liners? Are you a fan? That’s where my real recommendations shine

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Charlotte Dune's avatar

Yes please on the lip liner recs.

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Caroline's avatar

Merit is the only blush I’ll ever use!! Can you imagine…people are hating us and we’re just over her looking cute and perfectly flushed?!?!?

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Dia Lupo's avatar

We simply cannot be brought down!!! 💅🏼💅🏼💅🏼

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Revel & Motion's avatar

You MUSTTTT go blonde

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Dia Lupo's avatar

👀👀👀👀

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Tor Rose's avatar

I loved this

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Dia Lupo's avatar

thank you so much for reading 😘

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E.M. Evans's avatar

Bless you for the blush suggestions. For all of this, but particularly for those today.

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